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Cast picture of Barlowe.
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Ailment: mortal, vampire ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: hawksbill sea turtle

Barlowe is an eccentric natural wizard who lives in Tosnee, an eastern beach vampire community on Faidia. Barlowe made friends with Lem hundreds of years ago, so he has been a friend of elementals for a long time. He studies the ways mortals can make use of elemental magic without any interaction with elementals, through meditation, witch bottles, and other mortal-accessible techniques. He also has a special interest in elemental physiology, studying the impact of elemental aether on the organic life of Faidia.

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Vampires in the Faidian magic system are mortal people who were born with apertures so small they are effectively closed. They have to receive and give life aether through other means, like eating it, or hanging out in really lush natural areas (hence living in the tropics). Through contact with direct sources of life aether (like Lem himself), vampires can live for 300-500 years.

Barlowe's personality is very easy-going, but he does exercise a great deal of caution & respect around elementals. He monitors and works to suppress the efforts of terrorist wizards looking to overthrow or enslave the elementals. There are a lot of anti-elemental sentiments on the eastern continent, Miavra, because Lem has much less influence there. Barlowe is viewed as a traitor by the anti-elemental wizards. He has been attacked several times, and he lost the ring and pinky fingers of his right hand to a bomb planted where he would find it while out on field work.

Barlowe's father, a vampire, had to give his own life aether in order to conceive Barlowe. Though he lived several years into Barlowe's life, he died as a result of this permanent (as thought of at the time) aether loss. Barlowe went on to formally and informally studying elemental magic, so that he could figure out how to prevent this from happening again. By working with Lem, they were able to stop this phenomenon from occurring, and Faidian vampires in the modern era can have children without worrying about dying from it.

Barlowe was married and had a daughter with another vampire scientist, but they are now divorced. Their daughter, Moira, really enjoys being with her father because she wants to be a wizard too, but worries he will overwork himself to death and ruin the whole thing for her.

Trivia

I was not aware of the vampire Barlowe in Stephen King's Salem's Lot when I named Barlowe. I have absorbed a lot of Stephen King, but haven't gotten to that book or movie yet. I only found out about it while watching something else. Anyhow, that guy is a scary bastard and my Barlowe is a sweetheart so I doubt there'll be confusion.

You can mostly assume that those of my characters who have normal names (not fantasy names), are named after cats I've met or cats who belonged to people I met, and Barlowe is one of these.

Cast picture of Cal (Callanerial).
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: primary, death ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: crow

Cal (aka Callanerial) is the incompetent and abusive death elemental of the planet Faidia. Born into an empty void without parents or guidance, he teaches himself what he knows with the contents of a 1990s-era clipart CD-ROM. Though keenly intelligent & wizard-minded, Cal's cowardice & maladaptive coping mechanisms constantly kick his ass.

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Cal isolates and raises his two younger brothers, Rae and Lem, in a pocket dimension. Frightened of the bare rock that is Faidia pre-settlement, Cal first attempts to isolate with May, but she resists him and runs away (she doesn't like his vibe, and she prefers to live alone already).

After he finds Rae & Lem as very young babies, he imprisons them, hoping to keep them forever as his personal property. Due to this and the disinterest of his sister May in the two new children, he delays the development of his family and their planet for thousands of years, and nearly kills them all. It is only by Lem's actions that the elementals are saved and life comes to thrive on Faidia.

Cal has wide interests including computers, biomechanics, and animal husbandry. In the modern era of the comic, he takes care of a herd of lorriams on May's farm, harvesting their wool and milk and making cheese. He struggles with his abusive behaviors towards his family, anxiety about his continued survival, and his eating disordered behaviors. He dreams of feeling loved and important and finding a way to feel settled in his family despite how he has behaved up until now.

Cast picture of Curtis. He looks a bit flash-banged and is wearing an employee shirt with a 'hello my name is' sticker on it.
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Ailment: driver, undead ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: yellowjacket wasp

Curtis is one of Lem's long-term non-elemental contacts and frequent contract employee. They have known each other for hundreds of years. Curtis isn't a vampire, he receives plenty of life aether. His "being" got stuck somewhere in the pollution caused by Cal's neglect of Faidia. Fortunately and unfortunately for him, this strange and unlikely fluke has made him immortal.

Originally a colonist who ran away to do odd jobs, these days Curtis works mostly as a driver. He freights around special magic items and equipment for Lem, and sometimes he drives distraction as well. He has had the dubious luck of being involved with quite a number of Lem's seedier schemes and machinations, so Curtis knows the score. Curtis is a working class guy and a bit of a dirtbag, but he's good people.

Cast picture of Darcy.
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position & Ailment: Mortal, vampire ▰ Planet: Faidia

Darcy is a vampire lady who has worked with Barlowe, both as a baby sitter for Moira as well as helping Barlowe out with his Tosnee bar. Originally, Darcy pursued an academic career in Tower. She kept losing the lottery for a placement in a Tower job. She was still waiting when Lem put out a call for vampire residents of Tower to ask for their feedback on living conditions there. They met when Darcy responded to the survey and Lem conducted her interview. Through her, Lem met Barlowe and got involved with the Tosnee vampire community.

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Darcy and Lem are dating in the present day of the comic. Darcy has worked in leftist cells in the past to eradicate monarchy from Faidia, and has skill with a knife. She is the current operator of Barlowe's bar.

Cast picture of Eke.
Pronouns: he/him Position & Element: primary, death {Revoked} ▰ Planet: Tilretop ▰ Form: whatever

Eke is a death elemental who lives alone in his own spaceship. He has a gnarly history, but he is a copy of a death elemental, made by a previous generation of Starmouth. His original death elemental was the complement to the life elemental used to make Nacre, so Eke has a lingering attachment and feeling of friendship towards her.

Eke is an elemental philosopher and scientist as well as a freelance death elemental who serves as a doctor to everyone in Suti and Lyudmila's mutual aid network. He's very good at surveillance and identification of magical phenomenon.

Eke has an amorphous body on purpose; after being held to a strictly conventional standard of pointy and beautiful elves for many hundreds of years, he has ended up preferring to be a fat toad most of the time.

Cast picture of Ell (Ellioner).
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position & Element: secondary, time ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: F. pegasus

Ell Ell is a light hearted lady who embodies Faidian time. Like all Faidian secondaries, she was derived from a mortal woman, but rather than dying in an element-aspected incident like the others, she simply lived to and died of old age!

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She is a trans woman and transitioned both during her original mortal life and as an immortal (Lem asked her what she'd like her body to be when she ascended). She has also spent time living both as a human (in a colony) and as a Faidian pegasus, living wild in the woods.

Ell is certainly naive in some ways, and her colleagues don't always take her seriously because she expresses herself so exuberantly. However, she has plenty of relationship and parenting experience, and can handle some things better than the others, even if she's not a super-skilled magic-user. She and Funa are in a long-term situationship.

Ell is a strange elemental in that she appears to lack a dyad partner.

Eke reveals in Grayling 10 that Ell has a dyad partner, we simply don't know where it is, or the nature of it. It might be in another dimension, they just don't know. This makes Ell's magic so dangerous, it is inadvisable to use it until they know more.

Cast picture of Fern (Moranerial).
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: secondary, fire ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: corn snake

Grayling's main character, Fern (aka Moranerial) is the first secondary elemental to come about on Faidia, and his existence causes a lot of confusion on a lot of levels! Originally he is just one of many colonists Lemanerial created to people the planet, but he ends up blooming into a secondary elemental when he's visited by a stranger from another world. Suffering severe memory loss due to ascending from a mortal to a demi-god, on top of repeatedly killing himself by mistake using his own magic, AND an alcoholic, Moranerial has an uphill battle ahead of him.

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Fern is a neurodivergent gay man pressed into farming, marriage, & children by the conventions of the colony where he was born. This initial systemic abuse sets him up to fail when he's ascended to demi-godhood as a secondary elemental and has to learn from Cal, who is an extremely abusive individual and has no systemic knowledge to offer. Generally speaking, the primaries are not ready for secondaries to arrive. Fern ends up profoundly neglected, sick, and untrained, leading to the events of Grayling. Much later, in REFUSE SUBLIME, Fern is recruited by elemental social workers to help disabled elementals like himself across the galaxy using his special abilities (randomly given to him by the elemental system programming & spurred by the weird delay Cal caused on Faidia).

Fern has had thoughts of dating a lot of the other elementals, namely Cal and Rae, but ended up feeling too confused about them all, knowing that they have a long history ahead of them and behind them. While he enjoys the company and conversation of Rae and Lem at work every day, Fern feels most at home and comfortable with a mortal-turned-vampire, natural wizard named Barlowe, and they are dating in the current day of the comic.

Fern is pretty attached to his role as a parent, and wants to do a better job raising the younger elemental children of Faidia than they did previously with Fola. His other goal is to somehow reconcile his mortal and immortal identities against each other and how he is to define his own apotheosis.

Fern suffers in the height department and responds poorly to teasing in any capacity. His voice is surprisingly deep for such a small guy, on account of a disproportionately huge larynx.

Cast picture of Fola (Folanerial).
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: secondary, air ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: wandering albatross

Fola (aka Folanerial) was only a child when he was made Faidia's air elemental. Lemanerial accelerated his growth and knowledge base so he would fit in with the others more quickly. Instead, it made him deeply strange and precocious. Now an adult, he is inexorably fixated on success, particularly a fantastical idea of total recovery for Faidia so it can catch up to the planets that received systemic care. His devotion to the general elemental cause ends up backfiring when the others don't know how to handle his wildly disrespectful behavior & bald-faced self-interest.

At home, Fola is a fan of rubber ducks and other bird-shaped objects. He's fussy about everything and loves to spend money in a way few Faidians relate to. If he were on Earth, he'd be an old-school Apple fan.

Fola is asexual and aromantic. He will never be in a relationship officially with anyone. We can consider him in some kind of queer-platonic parental-flavored love triangle with Viv and Lem, though.

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Once the dust settles and the other elementals realize their hand in Fola's behavior, he is treated more as everyone's communal child, and his "delayed adolescence" reflects this. To this day he's still acting out, disobeying or ignoring orders, running away, and even taking mortal victims in his magic experiments. To put it another way, he's turned out to be a mix of Lem and Cal's influences that are very difficult to square with each other.

Cast picture of Funa (Funaner).
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position & Element: secondary, earth ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: fox

Funa (aka Funaner) is a brash & beautiful bi woman originally from a colony similar to Moranerial's. Instead of living as humans, her colony consisted of a mix of animals and dragons. Later, when dragons came to dominate the local economy, her family earned a place on their own land by sending Funa to work for the dragons. She held down an office position in one of their geological survey offices until she graduated to field work, which is when she tragically died in a landslide caused by negligence and subsequently became elemental of earth.

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Funa has always spear-headed the "industrialization" on Faidia in cooperation with Lemanerial and the other secondaries. She is probably the best at management and delegation among all the elementals, and Lem relies on her a lot. She established textile and garment manufacturing on a commercial scale to provide for Faidia's city civilizations, and from there assisted Fola and Cal with their manufacturing projects (vehicles in Fola's case and prosthetic limbs/biomechanoid parts for Cal).

Funa is a huge workaholic, which is a feature she shares with Lem. Sharp, accomplished, and focused, Funa has a cynical, critical personality: she has seen how authority can go so wrong with the dragons and her family. She often gets frustrated with the dysfunction and madness around, always having difficulty coming around to trusting the status quo again. She agrees with Lem on a lot of ideals, and they back each other in most regards, showing a fierce, mutual loyalty to each other even as they frustrate one another.

Cast picture of Klyre.
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: tertiary {revoked}, ? ▰ Planet: Eighvor

Klyre is one of many Eighvorian tertiary elementals. Cal met him during one of his visits to Starmouth 5. He's a suspicious fellow whom we don't know much about yet.

Cast picture of Kezper.
Pronouns: he/him, any/all ▰ Position & Element: tertiary, ? ▰ Planet: Faidia

Kezper is one of the strange children inadvertently formed by the magic activity of the Faidian elementals. Instead of forming a biological body powered by life aether, Kezper chose an The body is made of different technologies invented on Faidia, including Callanerial's muscle fibers, Lemanerial's computer technology, and Funaner's metallicized bones.

Kezper has a hivemind shared across his various bodies, and he is always being reborn and dying. His bodies are temporary and expire within a couple of weeks, but in that period he is extremely strong and durable. You cannot kill him in any way that matters, making him the most powerful of the children. It very difficult to get him to follow orders if he really doesn't want to.

Kezper's bodies are collectively referred to as "strutters," since they are known for their legginess & jaunty gaits, as well as their creepy eyes. Kezper just adds more eyes if anyone criticizes them, so everyone has learned to stay mum on this front.

Cast picture of Lem (Lemanerial).
Pronouns: he/him, she/her ▰ Position & Element: primary, life ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: green mamba

Lem (aka Lemanerial) is the youngest primary and spent his childhood being raised by his two brothers, Cal and Rae, in an isolated pocket dimension. Warped by the isolation and lack of stimulation, Lem has grown up to be extremely accomplished, but furtive, anxious, and neurotic.

Lem is an accomplished elemental who saved his planet many times from the jaws of disaster. He is also a wretched beast half-cut with madness, heckled constantly by chronic pain and a gory past. Regulating his emotions is particularly difficult. His patience is constantly eaten by unseen forces, so he has a hair-trigger temper. When he loses his composure, he screams, rants, and raves, expressing extremely disturbing amounts of pent-up rage. Overwork and lack of sleep spread his tolerance and patience even thinner, making tantrums more likely to happen. This loses him respect in many quarters.

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In order to help develop Faidia, Lem created clones of himself after leaving his childhood home. Some of these clones are disparate individuals who just have his face, like Fern, but there are "true" copies of Lem, clones who share his magic and help him do his work when his family failed him. There have been innumerable Lems, and many of them have died either by suicide or misadventure. There have been a few Lems that were freed by the others because they married into mortal families and wanted to lead mortal lives, and there are those members who have had to carry the torch for a very long time. The Lems all share memories back and forth with each other using their invention, a computer called the egregore.

For a long time, the only person both his family and the public were aware of was "Tower Lem," the Lem living in the main Faidian city occupying the seat. These days, there are 3 individuals serving as is "Lem": Hy (the original), Lemojo (the first clone), and the last Tower Lem (the most recent clone), who has transitioned to being a woman. In the current state of the comic, Lem doesn't need anymore clones, and he's trying to recover/taper off his use of self-harming methodologies in his pursuit of getting work done.

Since being kicked out by his brother, Lem has had chronic experiences with housing instability. He is forever wrestling with addictive behaviors and suicidality.

Through his clones, Lem has experienced nearly everything a mortal or immortal can under the sun! He's become old and died, he's become a woman and had babies, he's become all sorts of animal. He was curious about it all, did it all, & recorded everything carefully, only for a lot of those journals to rot away in time (one of the motivations leading him to create the egregore). All these experiences conveyed vital wisdom, of course. This aspect of him is very Tiresias coded.

Lem's animal form, a Eastern green mamba, is not one he uses often around others because of the whole snake-brain and venomous aspect.

Cast picture of Lyudmila.
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position & Element: tertiary {revoked}, movement ▰ Planet: Eighvor

Lyudmila is one of the first Eighvorian tertiary elementals, an ancient warrior who has fought in many wars and personally witnessed much of elemental history. Long ago, when she experienced a mild disability for the first time, she was banished from Eighvor, to be replaced by the next set of tertiary elementals Eighvor would inevitably have made. She met Suti while finding other work, and they have lived together since.

Lyudmila and Suti operate Starkept, the elemental mutual aid network, as well as Verver, the only useful index of elemental services in existence. Lyudmila has a specialized combat body that is simple, durable, and easy to heal. However, it doesn't allow her to sleep. She rarely properly rests, standing guard over Suti and their space ship. Originally made from the usual 2-3 base elementals, she has picked up more passengers over the years, integrating other elementals she encountered on the battlefied.

Cast picture of May (Mayaner).
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position & Element: primary, order ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: mute swan

May is Cal's twin sister, coming into existence on Faidia at about the same time as him. She represents structure & order in Faidia. May was originally indifferent to the idea of developing Faidia. An anti-natalist, she thought bringing life into the world would just multiply harm and cruelty. May was initially content just meditating and doing a little mild wizardry or socializing once in awhile. Being so interested in her own pursuits and not altogether enjoying time with in her brothers' company, May ignored the others for periods of thousands of years.

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While she was initially against life existing on Faidia, once it does she accepts and embraces it, and eventually steps completely into her role despite her earlier reservations and beliefs. Despite her initial indifference, May does care deeply about right and wrong, and she reforms her own behavior when she discovers how much Cal has manipulated and lied about the situation in their family.

May is still an anti-natalist and won't have children of her own, but she does have large family networks because she's married many times over the years. She keeps a large farmhouse and invites her friends & family over frequently. She is also a huge supporter of the arts and hosts both musicians and visual artists frequently in her home. When Cal and Rae are being rehabilitated, they stay with her.

Cast picture of Mid.
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: tertiary, ? ▰ Planet: Faidia

Mid is one of the strange children inadvertently formed by the magic activity of the Faidian elementals. He's sent Callanerial some strange messages while still computer-bound. Like Kezper, Mid eventually takes a biomechanical body. Mid has convinced himself that, unlike Kezper, he has made sure his body will be found aesthetically appealing, and therefore found to be a more worthy child. He is afraid that the other children will fail and be killed, while he himself works hard to survive. He formulated this approach after stewing in darkness and silence for many years.

Cast picture of Nacre.
Pronouns: she/her ▰ Position: tertiary {revoked}, thought ▰ Planet: Fornjõt

Nacre is a boutique tertiary elemental created on Hulim from a life, water, and air elemental. She was commissioned by the elementals of planet Fornjõt and designed to be a starlet, starting with opera singing, modeling, and acting. They contributed her to the Reesel-Eighvor empire to buy themselves status. When Nacre demanded more independence, her purchasers attempted to get a refund, causing an interplanetary conflict. Nacre was left homeless and destitute, receiving the blame for the breakdown of relationships between Fornjõt, Eighvor, and Hulim.

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After her life was ruined, Nacre was forced to live in a spaceship and work scams to get by. She was recruited by the Glow Worm Network, a criminal organization that used loopholes in the elemental system to steal aether from thousands of planets. She targeted Faidia for this scam, and this is how she and Hylemanerial met.

Cast picture of Smoke. Both his human & animal forms.
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: tertiary, memory ▰ Planet: Faidia

Smoke is one of the strange children inadvertently formed by the magic activity of the Faidian elementals. Laconic and difficult to read, Smoke formed as a complement to Hylemanerial's oblivion element. He spends time both as a human child and as a melcey (a gangly-looking species of cat-like creature on Faidia) after previously only being a melcey. After witnessing the way Moira, a human child, played, he decided he wanted to participate the same way.

Cast picture of Suti (Sutiyen).
Pronouns: they/them ▰ Position & Element: primary {revoked}, chaos ▰ Planet: Arduc

Suti (aka Sutiyen) is the original chaos elemental of the planet Arduc. They left their own planet a very long time ago, and they are not remembered there, having been replaced with a proxy.

They are an ancient elemental with a long history in the entertainment arts and politics. With their partner, Lyudmila, they currently run two fringe organizations: Starkept and Verver. Starkept is a mutual aid network that was originally designed to help artists of the elemental world stay on their feet, but has since expanded to providing social work and caretaking to any disabled elementals in need of it.

Verver, an off-shoot of Starkept, is a news publication and database that keeps track of whitelisted and blacklisted providers in the Reesel-Eighvorian civilization, and is basically the only usable index of its kind left in the present day world of the comic.

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Arduc was one of the most successful planets outside the main 5 (Reesel, Eighvor, Prolk, Thremset, Hulim) in the early days of elemental history. They made early gains by being extremely progressive for the time, and popularized many conventions that contradicted what the empire of the time was teaching. Their education module malfunctioned early in their development, and the elementals of Arduc took it into their own hands to defeat and remove the module from power so they could rule themselves.

Sadly, there were hidden costs to this, costs which ended up being Sutiyen's to pay.

Cast picture of Rae (Raenerial).
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: primary, chaos ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Halfling Form: kobold

Rae (aka Raenerial) is the mysterious goblin who seems to be trapped inside of Cal's body.

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Rae is the third primary sibling, older brother to Lem and younger brother of May and Cal. May trapped Rae inside of Cal's body when she discovered they had all been physically abusing each other. He stays a secret from the mortal population Lem creates, although hints of him manage to leak out via the most basal levels of the magic system. When all of this is finally brought to light by various manipulations of Lem's, Rae is freed and given back his identity and independent existence.

He has middle child syndrome, always worried that his family is forgetting and discounting him. Extremely devoted to Cal from the start, Rae followed Cal's lead in everything. When Cal began bullying Lem, Rae followed suit. For a long time, he did everything he could to make Cal happy. This drove him insane for a time.

He is a Faidian halfling, meaning he is a mixture of animal & human attributes. He can't switch neatly between an animal & a human form, like a normal Faidian animal-person (in Faidian, "coagliate") can.

In REFUSE SUBLIME, Rae has to contend with a larger elemental society that will absolutely look down on him for not being able to change his body easily, and he has to effectively stay closeted in public or face extreme discrimination.

Sometimes characters will comment on Rae's voice. Rae has a voice very similar to Lenny's on the Simpsons. This is mainly just for me ... I think Lenny's voice is really cute.

Cast picture of Viv (Vivanerial).
Pronouns: he/him ▰ Position & Element: secondary, water ▰ Planet: Faidia ▰ Animal Form: F. muskrat

Viv (aka Vivanerial) was a prince of a western pirate kingdom in life. He died when his father's monarchy collapsed under a vast plague of locusts, as they say, sent by Lemanerial. He is gentle and affable, but has a little trouble in the romance department due to flightiness and not knowing quite what he wants yet. Frightened of magic, yet confident about socializing with actual people (and not just weird wizards), he has struggled to fit into and adjust to elemental life despite showing gains early on.

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Viv was the one to step up and educate Fola when it was discovered his memory transfer did not go as planned. He's hasty to help others and sometimes this can lead to misunderstandings, but he is earnest and will doggedly pursue doing the right thing. He has a lot of reservations and criticisms about the primaries, and the idea of magic in general. In spite of this, his scrupulousness guarantees he's always on time and does good work.

For a time, Viv was in a relationship with Funa and Ell. They ended up breaking up with Viv because he was a little more needy than they could handle. Viv is deeply interested in domestic life and maybe raising kids. The women are simply more interested in their work.

Viv's family history as a prince set him up to be the target of Lemanerial's ire. In ancient times, Lem had tried to get Viv's father, a pirate king, to abdicate his throne and rule in accordance with Lemanerial's wishes as life elemental of the planet. He normally wasn't very controlling, but in cases of violence he had to step in, and he often used deceitful tactics to trick mortals into doing what he wanted.

After many failed attempts with agents, Lem attempted the feat himself, courting both the king and queen and dripping honey in their ears for years to convince them to renounce the throne and change to a different form of government. All this effort on his part, and in truth, deep attachment to two people he got to know very well, went to waste. The gambit ended disastrously with the king accusing Lem of duplicitousness. He banished Lem from the kingdom when he discovered Lem had clones created and he wasn't dealing with the "genuine" demi-god.

A little while later, locusts descended and consumed the kingdom's food stores, leaving them destitute, without friends and starving. Bitter & utterly dispirited with the whole situation, Lem let them die, Old Testament style.

Taken all together, what occurred was that Lem repeated his experience with Cal/Rae with Viv's parents, and he himself had walked right into it thinking it would "work out" again, that he could make everyone happy again, and it ended as badly as it possibly could due to sunk cost. Viv's father was an abusive authoritarian like Cal, and Viv's mother was a "passive but secretly just as bad an enabler" like Rae, and they both played him like a fiddle in a triangulation game, just like he had been played as a child before.

Meanwhile, Viv, as a prince with his own lodgings, only witnessed his parents' abusive behaviors occasionally, and Viv had numerous siblings for them to focus on as well. Viv even met Lem briefly at the court once or twice, but when he was only 17-18 years old, and actively saw Lem as some weirdo trying to penetrate his family life for no good reason.

Viv grew up respecting and loving his parents, only to discover their foul behavior very late in life (and some of the revelations of their behavior haven't been entirely shown to him yet even in the present day). He has a very "adult" attitude about it all and expects Lem to be the same, which Lem is infuriated by, because Viv did not experience the abuse the same and has so little sympathy for him.

Due to this unfortunate series of events, Viv and Lem are basically destined to never get along together. This is in spite of the fact that in naturally occurring element relations (how an element impacts their host's thoughts and behaviors, analogous to hormonal urges like hunger or thirst), life and water are heavily attracted to each other. It's kind of a shame, too; in another life, they would have liked each other a lot.